It means to have a godless marriage established with the flesh, and until you have been divorced from all of your previous lovers, you are not free to marry
Yet, you say you’re waiting on GOD for your husband. You’ve decided to add waiting to long list of self-appointed titles you’ve given yourself in your attempt to get the stuff and the lifestyle you want GOD to give you. But nothing seems to be working, so you become more and more bitter towards GOD; after all, you’ve been Lover Whirl krediter working at your wait for a long time. And to add insult to injury, some “holier-than-thou” sister posts up a picture of her ashy hand, clad with a beautiful diamond engagement ring with the caption “I said yes!”What.You remember when she first started her wait. As a matter of fact, you encouraged her, and now she’s getting married? Dude has to be an Ishmael. or at least, you hope he is.
What’s happening with you is that you never truly entered “the wait”. Instead, you came into the idea of the wait, but you removed JESUS from the equation when you chose works over faith. Instead, you put the Old Testament law to work, and that law justifies no man; instead, it condemns. Under the Old Testament law, you are guilty of fornication, adultery and much more. But under grace, you would have been forgiven for your sins and made new again. You trusted in your works, and while you were counting your works like sheep, GOD sat by lovingly waiting on you to wake up and surrender yourself, your pain, your soul ties and all that’s wrong with you to HIM. You’re not free to marry because you are still married. How so? Fornication doesn’t mean that one is guilty of premarital sex; fornication means to marry another human being through the act of sex. 1 Corinthians 6:15: Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
What exactly is a soul tie and are soul ties real? A soul tie is the coming together or cleaving of two souls. It means to be knit to one another through blood relations, sex or association. So yes, soul ties are real and there is biblical evidence to the existence of soul ties. Soul Ties Amongst Lovers Genesis 34:3: And his soul clave unto Dinah the dsel, and spake kindly unto the damsel. Soul Ties Amongst Friends 1 Samuel 18:1: And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. Godly Soul Ties Genesis 2:24: Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Ungodly Soul Ties 1 Corinthians 6:15: Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
The whole idea of the wait is fun, so you take the wait on as a work and not an act of love towards GOD, nor is it an act of faith
When we join ourselves to men, we become one flesh with them, but when we join ourselves to CHRIST, we become one Spirit with HIM. 1 Corinthians 6:17: But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.