6. Friendliness
If you ask any guy why he loves his girlfriend or wife, he will say how she makes friends with everyone and is friendly and kind to everyone. Nothing is sexier than a girl that everyone likes.
After all, if everyone likes her, then there must be a lot of good qualities she has for them all to feel that way. [Read: Friendly vs. flirty – how to tell if someone is flirting with you]
7. Genuineness
We live in a world of fake people. Think about it. On social media, people use endless filters and make their lives look a lot better than they really are.
So, a guy is looking for a girl who is genuine and not fake. It’s a difficult quality to find these days, but it is extremely attractive to almost every guy.
8. Maturity
So, maturity is more about mental and emotional calmness and the ability to put things into perspective. Guys don’t like women who are childish.
9. Intelligence
Usually, they would rather go out with an average-looking girl who is really interesting and intelligent than a supermodel who can’t put two words together. [Read: Attracted to intelligence? 10 clues you might be a sapiosexual]
10. Optimism
Who wants to be around a “Negative Nellie” or “Debbie Downer?” No one. Negative people and pessimists are a turn-off for most people – even for guys.
So, they are looking for a girl with a positive attitude about life. They want someone who can make lemonade when life hands her lemons.
11. Being on time
No one likes to wait around for other people to show up. Waiting around is a real time-waster and it’s also disrespectful to make someone do that.
So, when you are punctual and on time for everything, it shows that you have respect for his time. And that’s also a very attractive personality characteristic.
Now that we know the personality characteristics that would make a guy want to sleep with you, let’s look at specific ways to do it. [Read: 8 Dating attitudes that push potential partners away]
Now that you know what guys find attractive, you don’t want to waste years of pushing and pulling, trying to get a guy into you-don’t do what you’ve always done.
Instead, follow these tips on how to get a guy to sleep with you, and they’ll put you on the right track. If you thought this was some complex algorithm, you’re wrong.
1. Don’t be too eager
There’s a time and place to look at him, but this is clearly not the time. See, here is the thing, no one wants to be with someone who’s too into them-at least in the beginning.
They want the chase. They want you to play a little hard to get. They don’t want you drooling after them. Sure it boosts their ego, but not in the way that gets you laid. [Read: How to ignore a guy just right and leave him chasing you]
2. Feel sexy
Sexiness can be felt miles away, and it’s not surprising that it will make a guy want to sleep with you. You don’t have to look like Megan Fox in order to be sexy. Hell, most girls are far from it. But, you have to think that you are really sexy. You should love your hair and your smile.
Sure, there might be some flaws that you have, but you shouldn’t think about that when you walk into a room. You should only think about how great you look and feel. If you feel sexy, every guy wants a piece of it. [Read: How to feel sexy and desirable all the time]